Jet lag, Exhausted   

I can hardly upload the pictures now..

The Internet line here is really bad..   

Newcastle??

Bridges and Buildings…

Pictures will be uploaded soon..   

02/07/06

02/08/06

16/08/06

07/09/06

You said:”It’s not easy.” And I smiled..

Argh..Is it all the dates are correct? Hmm… I just always make you worry.

I’m careless, I’m lazy, I’m stupid, I’m…just imperfect.

I’m very very very happy that I met you..

You just don’t know how good you’re, perhaps..

Will you still the same forever?

The day we sat back to back..

We talked to each other, on another day..

Day by day, We just desired to know each other..

Unblurred us

and then..

What’s the next pic?

We are looking for the coming winter and the next summer?   

I love the lyrics..

 

一見鍾情需要多久時間？

答案是三十秒。

根據英國專家所進行的大規模快速約會實驗,女性在選擇未來的人生伴侶時，決定過程所花費的時間比男性來的短，

如果在三十秒內無法讓異性印象深刻，那麼就註定成為「無緣的人」。

這項由赫特福德大學(University ofHerfordshire)教授魏斯曼主持，對一百名尋找終生伴侶的單身族所進行的實驗，要求每個人與十名異性快速約會，同時對約會的對象進行魅力評分，並決定是否再與對方約會。

結果發現，多數人在三十秒之內就決定是否喜歡約會的對象，及是否願意再與他（或她）見面，其中女性作決定的速度比男性快，百分之四十五的女性不到三十秒就決定，但男性只有百分之二十二。

魏斯曼表示，男性經常被批評膚淺，只根據女性的外表決定是否展開追求的行動，實驗證明，女性比男性更快在短暫交談時作決定。

「換言之，男性如果想擄獲芳心，只有幾秒鐘的時間，因此開場白非常重要」。

魏斯曼說，長久以來，根據演化理論，女性較男性關注「長期的兩性關係」，但這個看法被推翻。

實驗後進行的問卷調查顯示，女性關注的不僅是兩人是否有火花，男性的外型是否出眾也是要項，

「女人比男人加倍挑剔」。那些受歡迎參與者的約會對象幾乎百分之一百希望再和他們見面，

不過約有百分之三十的人，可能是眼光太高或是約會時言詞笨拙，連一個再約會的機會都沒有。

魏斯曼和他的研究人員還將再繼續追蹤後續的約會情況，了解他們是否的確滋生愛苗.

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I Love you too!   

As I sat there in English class, I stared at the girl next to me.She was my so-called “best friend”. I stared at her long, silky hair. I wished she were mine, but she didn’t notice me. And I knew it. After class she walked up to me and asked me for the notes, she had missed the day before, and I handed them to her.She said “thanks” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I wanted to tell her. I wanted her to know that I don’t want to be just friends. I love her, but I’m just too shy. And I don’t know why.

11th Grade
The phone rang. It was her on the other end. She was in tears, mumbling on and on about how her love had broke her heart. She asked me to come over because she didn’t want to be alone, so I did. As I sat next to her on the sofa, I stared at her soft eyes, wishing she was mine. After 2 hours, a Drew Barrymore movie, and three bags of chips, she decided to go to sleep. She looked at me, said “thanks,” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her. I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends. I love her, but I’m just too shy. And I don’t know why.

12th Grade
The day before prom she walked to my locker. “My date is sick,” she said. He’s not going to go. Well, I didn’t have a date and in 7th grade we made a promise that if neither of us had dates we would go together just as “best friends,” so we did. Prom night after everything was over I was standing at her front door step. I stared at her. She smiled at me and stared at me with her crystal eyes. I want her to be mine, but she doesn’t think of me like that, and I know it. Then she said, “I had the best time,thanks!” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her. I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends. I love her, but I’m just too shy. And I don’t know why…

Graduation Day
A day passed. A week passed. A month passed. Before I could blink, it was graduation day. I watched as her perfect body floated like an angel up on stage to get her diploma. I wanted her to be mine, but she didn’t notice me like that, and I knew it. Before everyone went home, she came to me in her smock and hat, and she cried as I hugged her. Then, she lifted her head from my shoulder and said, “You’re my best friend, thanks!” and gave me a kiss on the cheek. I want to tell her. I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends. I love her, but I’m just too shy. And I don’t know why¡K

A Few Years Later
Now, I sit in the pews of the church. She is gettin married,now. I watched her say, “I do” and drive off to her new life, married to another man. I wanted her to be mine but she didn’t see me like that, and I knew it. But before she drove away, she came to me and said, “You came!” She said, “thanks!” and kissed me on the cheek.I want to tell her. I want her to know that I don’t want to be just friends. I love her, but I’m just too shy. And I don’t know why…

Funeral
Yrs passed, and I looked down at the coffin of the girl who used to be my best friend.” At the service they read a diary entry she had wrote in her high school years. This is what it read: I stare at him wishing he were mine. But he doesn’t notice me like that, and I know it. I want to tell him. I want him to know that I don’t want to be just friends. I love him, but I’m just too shy, and I don’t know why. I wish he would tell me he loved me¡Ki wish I did too¡Ki thought to myself, and I cried.

You don’t know how much you love your beloved, but you know how to say “I love you!”   

 Enjoy evertime “I Love You”

擁有從來都是好的?

失去從來都是不好的?

 

從來沒有擁有過,就不會知道失去的感受

當失去了之後,才又知道擁有有多重要

 

擁有了”擁有”, 會害怕失去”它”嗎?

失去了”擁有”, 還會期待下一個”擁有”?

那,還會害怕下一個”失去”?

 

那,

是擁有?

是失去?

是好?

是壞?

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